SIGNATURE EXPERIENCE
MOST RECOMMENDED
Authentic Tantra Massage
for Men
Bodywork · Breath · Sexual Energy
The most complete embodied introduction to my work with men.
Authentic Tantra Massage by May Gonzalez brings together
conscious touch, breath, sensation, body awareness,
nervous-system regulation and sexual energy within one
whole-body experience.
Rather than approaching sexuality primarily through erection,
ejaculation or performance, the work creates space to experience
your body through receiving, awareness, pleasure, presence and
embodied sensation.
THE EXPERIENCE MAY EXPLORE
Whole-Body Awareness
Developing sensitivity beyond a primarily genital experience.
Breath & Regulation
Becoming more aware of tension, relaxation and the relationship
between breath and your nervous system.
Receiving
Expanding your capacity to receive touch and remain connected
with the sensations moving through your body.
Sexual Energy
Exploring arousal, vitality and pleasure with greater presence
and awareness.
Embodied Pleasure
Experiencing pleasure as something that can involve the whole
body rather than remaining concentrated in one area.
Presence
Moving away from constant self-monitoring and mental observation
towards greater connection with what you actually feel.
RECOMMENDED FIRST EMBODIED EXPERIENCE
SPECIALISED SEXUAL WELLBEING
PE · ED
Authentic Tantra Massage
for PE & ED
Arousal Awareness · Regulation · Confidence
A focused embodied pathway for men exploring sexual response,
arousal and recurring performance patterns.
This work may be relevant when premature ejaculation,
erectile difficulties, performance anxiety or difficulty
regulating arousal affects your sexual experience.
Instead of demanding that your body respond in a particular way,
the work develops awareness of how breath, attention, tension,
pelvic responses and arousal interact.
AREAS OF EXPLORATION
Arousal Awareness
Learning to recognise how arousal begins, builds, changes
and moves through the body.
Pelvic Awareness
Exploring pelvic-floor tension, sensation, relaxation
and sexual response.
Regulation
Using breath, attention and body awareness to remain present
while sensation or arousal increases.
Ejaculatory Patterns
Developing greater awareness around escalation,
intensity and habitual response.
Erectile Response
Exploring erection without making it the measure or goal
of the entire sexual experience.
Performance Patterns
Recognising pressure, self-monitoring, control and the mental
habits that may interfere with embodied experience.
SPECIALISED EMBODIED SEXUAL WELLBEING