By May Gonzalez
Effective Date: 07/04/2026
Preparing Yourself for a Session with May Gonzalez
Working with sacred sexuality and Tantra is not simply about receiving a bodywork session. It is an invitation into a deeper relationship with your body, your emotions, your energy, and your consciousness.
For this reason, I ask all potential clients to take time to read and reflect on the information below before requesting a session.
This guide exists to help you understand the nature of the work and to ensure that our meeting happens in a space of clarity, respect, and energetic resonance.
The Philosophy of My Work
My work is rooted in the understanding that sexual energy is life force energy.
When approached with awareness and respect, this energy can support healing, emotional release, personal growth, and spiritual awakening.
Tantric bodywork is not about performance or stimulation.
It is about presence, awareness, and embodied consciousness.
In my practice I integrate:
• Authentic Tantra teachings
• Somatic awareness
• Sacred sexuality practices
• Emotional integration
• Conscious touch and energetic awareness
Each session is a sacred container where the body, emotions, and energy can reorganize naturally.
What Tantra Is — And What It Is Not
Understanding this distinction is essential.
Tantra Is
• A path of awareness
• A spiritual and energetic practice
• A method for reconnecting with the body
• A way of healing emotional and energetic blockages
• A practice of conscious touch and presence
Tantra Is Not
• Escorting
• Erotic entertainment
• Sexual services
• A performance for pleasure
• A substitute for emotional responsibility
Anyone seeking those experiences will not resonate with this work.
Tantra asks for presence, maturity, and openness to transformation.
Why Energetic Alignment Matters
Every session involves the interaction of two energetic fields: the practitioner and the client.
For deep work to occur, there must be energetic harmony and mutual respect.
When alignment is present:
• trust develops naturally
• the body relaxes
• emotional release becomes possible
• healing processes unfold safely
Without alignment, the experience becomes superficial and the deeper purpose of the work is lost.
For this reason, I only work with people who resonate with my philosophy and approach.
Before Requesting a Session
Please take time to explore the articles and teachings available on this website.
This will help you understand:
• the ethics of Tantra therapy
• the intention behind Authentic Tantra Massage by May Gonzalez
• the role of consciousness in sacred sexuality
• the boundaries of my work
Reading these materials is part of the preparation process.
When knowledge is present, the experience becomes much deeper.
Your Intention Matters
Before contacting me, I invite you to reflect honestly on your intention.
Ask yourself:
• Why am I drawn to this experience?
• What am I hoping to discover about myself?
• Am I open to emotional or energetic processes?
• Am I willing to meet my body without judgment?
• Am I ready for an experience that may be transformative?
Tantra invites authenticity.
There is no need to perform or pretend.
Only honesty is required.
Who This Work Is For
This work is suitable for individuals who:
• are curious about conscious sexuality
• wish to reconnect with their bodies
• want to explore healing through touch and awareness
• feel called to deepen their relationship with life force energy
• are open to personal and spiritual growth
People from all genders and backgrounds are welcome.
Respect, openness, and maturity are the only requirements.
Who This Work Is Not For
This work is not suitable for individuals who:
• are seeking sexual services
• expect erotic performance or stimulation
• are unwilling to respect professional boundaries
• are not open to self-awareness
• feel uncomfortable with emotional processes
Maintaining clarity around this protects both the practitioner and the client.
The Energetic Attunement Process
After reading the materials and reflecting on your intention, the next step is energetic attunement.
This is a simple but important process.
Step 1 — Study
Read the articles on this website and become familiar with the philosophy behind the work.
Step 2 — Reflection
Take time to sit with the information and notice how your body responds.
Does the work resonate with you?
Step 3 — Contact
If you feel a genuine resonance, you may contact me and express your intention for a session.
Please share briefly:
• what draws you to this work
• what you hope to explore
• whether you have previous experience with Tantra or somatic work
Step 4 — Energetic Alignment
After receiving your message, I will determine whether a session feels appropriate.
Sometimes I may suggest:
• a preliminary conversation
• further reading
• waiting before scheduling
This ensures the work happens in the most supportive environment possible.
Preparing for a Session
If we decide to move forward, you will receive preparation instructions.
Preparation may include:
• arriving well rested
• avoiding alcohol or substances beforehand
• taking time for quiet reflection
• coming with openness and curiosity
The more present you arrive, the more meaningful the experience can be.
Respect and Sacred Boundaries
Sacred work requires clear and respectful boundaries.
In my sessions:
• consent and communication are essential
• professionalism is always maintained
• the focus remains on healing and awareness
Boundaries are not limitations — they are what allow deep work to happen safely.
A Sacred Meeting
A Tantra session is not simply something you receive.
It is something we co-create together.
Your openness, presence, and sincerity are as important as the techniques used during the session.
When both practitioner and client enter the space with awareness, the experience becomes a powerful opportunity for transformation.
If You Feel the Resonance
If after reading this guide you feel a genuine connection with this work, you are welcome to reach out.
Please contact me through the form below and share your intention.
From there we can explore whether the next step is to schedule a session.
Sacred work begins long before the session itself.
It begins with awareness, intention, and energetic resonance.
With presence,
May Gonzalez
Sacred Sexuality Priestess
Somatic Sexologist
6. Contact Information
For questions or concerns about your Tantra Massage session, please contact:
Email: [email protected]
Website: https://maygonzalez.com/
7 .Learn More About Authentic Tantra Massage
To know more about Authentic Tantra Massage, clients are encouraged to download my free ebook, which offers a deeper understanding of the philosophy, practices, and sacred foundations behind this work.
Aditional information
Tantra Is Rooted in the Feminine Principle
Tantra, in its authentic essence, is rooted in the feminine principle of consciousness, receptivity, and presence. While both masculine and feminine energies exist within all human beings, the tantric path honors the wisdom of the feminine as the gateway to embodiment, intimacy, and transformation.
The feminine principle invites us to slow down, to feel, to listen to the body, and to allow energy to unfold naturally. It is not about performance, conquest, or achieving a sexual goal. Instead, Tantra is about presence, devotion, sensitivity, and deep respect for the sacred nature of the body.
In many modern misunderstandings, Tantra is reduced to techniques or sexual stimulation. This interpretation often reflects a masculine, goal-oriented approach, where the focus becomes performance, gratification, or achieving specific outcomes.
Authentic Tantra moves in the opposite direction.
It is receptive rather than forceful, intuitive rather than controlling, and devotional rather than performative. The feminine principle teaches that healing and pleasure arise from relaxation, trust, and surrender to the natural intelligence of the body.
Why This Matters in My Work
Because my work is rooted in the feminine tantric tradition, sessions are not designed to satisfy fantasies, curiosity, or sexual expectations.
They are a sacred therapeutic space intended for:
- emotional healing
- embodiment
- energetic awareness
- conscious intimacy
- personal and spiritual growth
When a person approaches Tantra with expectations of stimulation, performance, or entertainment, the energetic intention is no longer aligned with the authentic path of Tantra.
For this reason, I may decline sessions when the intention does not reflect a genuine desire for healing, embodiment, and conscious transformation.
This policy is designed to honour the sacred nature of Authentic Tantra Massage while ensuring mutual respect and professionalism. By booking a session, clients agree to abide by these terms.
