Experiencing Authentic Tantra massage with May Gonzalez is often described as a profound, transformative journey that engages all aspects of your being—physical, emotional, and spiritual. This sacred practice invites you to explore the depths of relaxation, heightened awareness, emotional release, and spiritual awakening. Here’s a closer look at what you might encounter:
The Experience
Deep Relaxation The slow, intentional movements and sacred touch of Tantra massage encourage a deep sense of relaxation, allowing you to let go of tension and stress. This process fosters a sense of safety and trust, helping you to fully surrender to the experience.
Heightened Awareness: By incorporating breathwork and mindfulness, Tantra massage can heighten your body awareness. You may discover sensations and areas of energy in your body that you’ve never felt before, creating a new level of connection with yourself.
Emotional Release: This practice can unlock stored emotions, leading to feelings of joy, vulnerability, or even tears. These emotional releases are natural and play a key role in the healing process.
Connection to Self: Tantra massage invites you to tune into your body and soul, cultivating self-love and acceptance. It’s an opportunity to embrace your authentic self without judgment, deepening your relationship with who you are.
Energy Flow: As energy is awakened and moved throughout your body, you might feel tingling, warmth, or waves of pleasure. These sensations extend beyond the physical, opening you to a more expansive energetic experience.
Spiritual Awakening: For some, Tantra massage transcends the physical and emotional, connecting them to a profound sense of spirituality or universal love. This can feel like a deep connection to something greater than oneself.
Empowerment: Many leave the session feeling empowered, grounded, and revitalized. This state of being can unlock deeper wells of creativity, intuition, and personal strength.
The Energies in Authentic Tantra Massage
Tantra massage explores three key types of energy: unarousal energy, arousal energy, and orgasmic energy. Each plays a vital role in the transformative experience.
1. Unarousal Energy
Definition: This is the calm, baseline state of your body’s energy when it is not actively stimulated by sexual desire or heightened sensations.
In Practice: Sessions begin by honoring this energy through relaxation and neutrality. Techniques like gentle touch, breathwork, and mindfulness help awaken subtle sensations without intense stimulation.
Purpose: To ground and center you, cultivate receptivity, and allow the nervous system to open pathways for energy flow.
2. Arousal Energy
Definition: This refers to the awakening of sensual or sexual energy, often felt as warmth, tingling, or waves of pleasure.
In Practice: The practitioner uses intentional touch and breathwork to activate this energy and expand it throughout the body, moving beyond a focus on the genitals. This stage emphasizes experiencing the fullness of sensations rather than pursuing an end goal.
Purpose: To sustain and amplify pleasure, dissolve blockages, and deepen self-awareness and connection.
3. Orgasmic Energy
Definition: Unlike the typical understanding of orgasm, this energy is about an expansive state of bliss and connection that can be felt throughout the entire body and beyond.
In Practice: As arousal energy builds and circulates, it can naturally transition into orgasmic energy. This is not limited to genital sensations but can be experienced as waves of ecstasy, unity, or spiritual connection.
Purpose: To unlock prolonged pleasure, heightened consciousness, and deep healing, fostering integration of body, mind, and spirit.
The Flow Between Energies
Tantra massage sessions guide you through these energies in a seamless progression:
Starting with unarousal energy, you establish a foundation of relaxation and presence.
As the session progresses, arousal energy is gently awakened and explored, circulating through your entire body.
If sustained, this energy can transition into orgasmic energy, facilitating profound healing and spiritual awakening.
Bioelectricity in the Body
What is Bioelectricity?
Bioelectricity refers to the electrical currents and signals that flow through the body, powering the nervous system, cellular communication, and muscle movements.
It governs essential processes such as heartbeats, brain activity, and sensory responses, creating a constant interplay of electrical impulses.
How It Relates to Tantra:
In Tantra, bioelectricity is closely associated with sexual energy, often viewed as a potent expression of life force energy.
This energy is not confined to sexual organs but circulates throughout the body via energy pathways (known as nadis in yogic traditions or meridians in Chinese medicine).
Practices like breathwork, meditation, and intentional touch help amplify and direct this energy for healing and transformation.
Awakening of Pleasure
The Process of Awakening Pleasure:
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Awakening pleasure in Tantra involves cultivating awareness of subtle sensations in the body and expanding them beyond localized areas, such as the genitals.
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Techniques Used:
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Breathwork: Deep, rhythmic breathing connects the mind and body, enhancing sensation and energy flow.
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Mindful Touch: Slow, intentional touch increases sensitivity and builds awareness of previously unnoticed sensations.
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Visualization: Imagining energy moving through the body enhances the experience of pleasure and circulation of energy.
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Removing Blockages:
Emotional trauma, tension, and societal conditioning often create energetic blockages in the body that limit the flow of pleasure.
Tantra works to release these blockages by bringing attention to areas of resistance, allowing energy to flow freely and naturally.
Building Arousal Energy:
By focusing on sensations without rushing toward an outcome, arousal energy is gradually amplified and spread throughout the body.
This process rewires the nervous system to sustain higher levels of pleasure and connect it to emotional and spiritual states.
Full-Body Orgasm
What is a Full-Body Orgasm?
A full-body orgasm is not confined to the genitals but involves waves of pleasure and energy that ripple through the entire body.
It can manifest as physical sensations, emotional ecstasy, or even spiritual bliss, often described as a state of unity with the self or the universe.
How It Differs from Traditional Orgasm:
Traditional orgasms are often localized, short-lived, and involve a release of tension.
Full-body orgasms are expansive, prolonged, and deeply integrated with breath, emotion, and energy flow.
The Role of Bioelectricity:
During a full-body orgasm, bioelectric currents in the body become synchronized, creating a harmonic resonance.
This heightened state activates the parasympathetic nervous system, leading to profound relaxation, healing, and rejuvenation.
How to Cultivate a Full-Body Orgasm:
Breathwork: Deep breathing helps sustain and circulate energy through the body.
Movement: Gentle, flowing movements or micro-movements can help release energy and enhance sensation.
Focus on Sensations: Bringing mindfulness to all parts of the body allows energy to flow beyond the genitals.
Tantric Practices: Partnered or solo Tantra exercises, like yoni/lingam massage and energy work, create the conditions for a full-body orgasm to arise naturally.
The Connection Between Pleasure and Healing
Healing Trauma: Pleasure activates the body’s natural capacity to heal by releasing stress and rewiring the nervous system.
Emotional Release: As energy flows freely, it can unlock stored emotions, creating a sense of emotional lightness and freedom.
Spiritual Awakening: The merging of energy and consciousness during a full-body orgasm can lead to heightened states of spiritual awareness and connection.
Why It Matters
Understanding and embracing these energies in Tantra massage offers transformative benefits:
Releasing Shame: By welcoming all states of your being without judgment.
Expanding Pleasure: Learning to sustain and circulate energy for a richer experience.
Healing and Growth: Transforming physical and emotional blockages, cultivating a more vibrant and integrated self.
Experience Unity: Aligning with your life force energy, creating a profound sense of connection to yourself and the world.
Through May Gonzalez’s guidance, you are invited to explore these energies in a safe, sacred space. Her unique approach, blending her expertise as a sacred sexuality priestess and somatic sexologist, creates a transformative experience that can lead to holistic well-being and spiritual awakening.
When combined, somatic sexology and Tantra offer a holistic approach to sexual and reproductive health, empowering individuals to reclaim their bodies, heal from trauma, and cultivate a deeper connection to their sexuality and creative life force. This integrative practice can be profoundly transformative, addressing challenges such as sexual dysfunction, low self-esteem, stress, lack of sexual education, or trauma related to childbirth, sexual abuse, or other life experiences. It also provides a nurturing space for relaxation and self-discovery.
Self-knowledge is a continuous journey of understanding and connecting with ourselves. As we explore deeper layers of our being, we unlock new pathways to our source of inspiration and vitality, enriching not only our personal growth but also the way we relate to the world around us.
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