Welcome to the Authentic Tantra Massage Guide, where ancient wisdom meets modern practices for healing, transformation, and self-discovery. As a Tantric Massage Teacher, Sexual Dysfunctions Specialist, and energy healer, I have dedicated my life to exploring the profound connection between the body, mind, and spirit. This guide is designed to introduce you to the sacred art of Tantra Massage—a practice that awakens energy, unlocks potential, and fosters deep physical, emotional, and spiritual balance. Whether you’re a curious beginner or seeking to deepen your journey, this guide will illuminate the path to self-awareness and empowerment. Let’s embark on this transformative journey together.
About me: May Gonzalez
I’m May Gonzalez—a Tantric Massage Teacher, Yoga Teacher, Sexual Dysfunctions Specialist (aligned with Tantra Lineage Traditions), Ayurveda Masseuse, Reiki Healer, Sex Coach, and Postgraduate in Human Sexuality. My journey in the field of Tantra began in 2016, with extensive training and certifications, including the highest licensed qualifications in the art of Tantra and energy healing.
I’ve studied matriarchal matrilineal Tantra—a tradition passed from woman to woman—in diverse locations such as Egypt, Bali, Ireland, Brazil, Greece, and Spain. Through this path, I’ve gathered wisdom from around the world, continually expanding my knowledge.
To date, I’ve worked with over 10,000 people, offering sessions to women, men, and couples in Ireland and Portugal. My work also includes one-on-one mentorships and online courses, like my signature “Orgasmic Development for Women,” designed to explore Tantra and Sacred Sexuality.
What is Tantra Massage?
Tantra translates to the “path of enlightenment and liberation.” It is a philosophy and set of practices designed for healing, transformation, and self-discovery. Tantra focuses on three of the most potent human experiences: sexual desire, love, and the quest for freedom.
Tantra Massage is an integral part of this tradition. It activates and works with sexual energy—not for sexual purposes—but as a means of achieving spiritual and physical harmony. It promotes energy rebalancing, addresses trauma and emotional blockages, and awakens your capacity for pleasure and creativity.
Core Elements of Tantra Massage:
- Pranayama (Breathwork)
- Meditation and Mindfulness Practices
- Healing Techniques for Trauma and Limiting Beliefs
Tantra Massage is not about sex or masturbation. It’s about accessing your inner potential for healing, self-awareness, and transformation.
Authentic Tantra Massage
Authentic Tantra Massage combines bodywork with the sacred teachings of traditional Tantra. This lineage-based knowledge is passed down through generations, ensuring that the practices remain rooted in authenticity and reverence.
It integrates a variety of techniques, including:
- Ayurvedic Massage: For relaxation and trust-building.
- Pranayama and Meditation: To access latent energy.
- Chakra Alignment and Energy Flow: Balancing the body’s energetic systems.
- Semen Retention Practices: Beneficial for treating sexual dysfunctions and enhancing vitality.
Through this practice, clients can experience the release of pain, expansion of consciousness, and a profound sense of being loved and complete.
How Does Tantra Massage Work?
In my sessions, I work with three types of sexual energy:
- Unawakened Energy: Latent within us but often unnoticed.
- Arousal Energy: The heightened awareness and movement of inner strength.
- Orgasmic Energy: A powerful force that nourishes and revitalizes the body.
Each session is tailored to your needs, beginning with grounding techniques like breathing, visualization, and mindfulness. As your body accesses these energy levels, you’ll experience increased vitality, emotional release, and heightened self-awareness. Advanced practices can even lead to experiences like dry orgasms and energy redirection for health and youthfulness.
The Structure of a Tantra Massage Session
Here’s what to expect in my sessions:
1. Anamnesis
We establish trust and identify objectives. This stage involves active listening to uncover any traumas, blocks, or needs that will guide our work together.
2. Tantric Counseling
Before the massage, we’ll discuss the process and your intentions. This ensures a safe space for exploration and healing.
3. Mindful Breathing Meditation
Focused breathing techniques allow you to relax into the present moment, laying the foundation for ecstatic experiences.
4. Voice Activation
Expression is healing. Vocal exercises help release emotions and reconnect with your inner voice.
5. Sensorial Massage
A light, subtle touch awakens the body’s bioelectricity, enhancing physical and emotional balance.
6. Ayurvedic Massage
This traditional Indian technique calms the mind and body, fostering relaxation and trust.
7. Conscious Touch
A profound, deeply intentional touch focuses on stimulating reflex points, promoting blood flow, and awakening sensations in the genital area—without sexual connotation.
Why Choose Tantra Massage?
Tantra Massage is a powerful tool for:
- Healing emotional wounds and physical blockages.
- Rediscovering self-confidence and creativity.
- Enhancing vitality and overall well-being.
- Experiencing deep relaxation and connection.
Each session is an opportunity to embark on a journey of self-discovery, awareness, and profound transformation.
I am deeply grateful for the stories, transformations, and connections that this work continues to bring. Tantra Massage is not just a practice—it’s a path to healing, empowerment, and joy.
When combined, somatic sexology and Tantra offer a holistic approach to sexual and reproductive health, empowering individuals to reclaim their bodies, heal from trauma, and cultivate a deeper connection to their sexuality and creative life force. This integrative practice can be profoundly transformative, addressing challenges such as sexual dysfunction, low self-esteem, stress, lack of sexual education, or trauma related to childbirth, sexual abuse, or other life experiences. It also provides a nurturing space for relaxation and self-discovery.
Self-knowledge is a continuous journey of understanding and connecting with ourselves. As we explore deeper layers of our being, we unlock new pathways to our source of inspiration and vitality, enriching not only our personal growth but also the way we relate to the world around us.
Explore My Treatments
Tantra Massage For Men
Tantra for men is a path of self-mastery, emotional connection, and spiritual growth. It teaches the conscious cultivation of sexual energy, fostering deeper intimacy, inner balance, and expanded awareness.
Tantra Massage For Dysfunction
Tantra for men is a path of self-mastery, emotional connection, and spiritual growth. It teaches the conscious cultivation of sexual energy, fostering deeper intimacy, inner balance, and expanded awareness.
Naked Souls & Sacred Surrender Ritual
A journey of vulnerability where divine touch awakens the body, and naked souls connect in raw authenticity. It fosters healing, intimacy, and deep transformation through boundless energy and trust.
