Erectile function is influenced by a combination of physical, hormonal, neurological, emotional, and lifestyle factors. Because Authentic Tantra Massage works with the body, nervous system, breath, awareness, and energy, understanding your current health helps create a safer, more realistic, and more personalized therapeutic experience.
This questionnaire is not intended to diagnose any medical condition. Instead, it helps identify possible factors that may be contributing to erectile difficulties and allows me to better understand your individual circumstances before beginning our work together.
Please answer the following questions honestly.
General Health
☐ I have been diagnosed with diabetes.
☐ I have high blood pressure.
☐ I have high cholesterol.
☐ I have a history of heart or cardiovascular disease.
☐ I have had pelvic surgery or prostate surgery.
☐ I have a neurological condition (such as multiple sclerosis, Parkinson’s disease, stroke, or spinal injury).
Hormonal Health
☐ I have been diagnosed with low testosterone.
☐ I have a thyroid condition.
☐ I have noticed a significant decrease in my libido (sexual desire).
Medication
☐ I currently take medication for blood pressure.
☐ I take antidepressants or anti-anxiety medication.
☐ I take other prescription medication that may affect sexual function.
Lifestyle
☐ I smoke cigarettes or use nicotine regularly.
☐ I drink alcohol excessively.
☐ I use recreational drugs.
☐ I exercise less than three times per week.
☐ I am overweight or obese.
☐ I regularly sleep less than 7 hours per night.
Psychological & Emotional Factors
☐ I often experience stress.
☐ I struggle with anxiety.
☐ I worry about my sexual performance.
☐ I have experienced depression.
☐ I have unresolved emotional or sexual trauma.
☐ I currently have relationship difficulties.
Sexual History
☐ I have morning erections most days.
☐ I can achieve an erection during masturbation but not during partnered intimacy.
☐ My erection is difficult to maintain during intercourse.
☐ My erection difficulties happen almost every time I have sex.
☐ This issue has been present for more than three months.
Additional Questions
When did you first notice this issue?
Does it happen every time or only in certain situations?
Have you already spoken with a doctor or urologist about this?
Have you had any recent blood tests (glucose, cholesterol, testosterone, thyroid)?
Is there anything else you believe may be contributing to your current situation?
How These Factors May Influence Your Authentic Tantra Massage Results
Authentic Tantra Massage by May Gonzalez is a holistic bodywork practice that supports body awareness, nervous system regulation, conscious breathing, relaxation, emotional integration, and a healthier relationship with your sexuality. While many clients experience positive changes, the results are influenced by each person’s overall physical and emotional health.
Medical conditions such as diabetes, cardiovascular disease, hormonal imbalances, neurological disorders, certain medications, chronic stress, anxiety, and depression can all affect erectile function. These same factors may also influence how your body responds to Authentic Tantra Massage, meaning that the improvements may be more gradual or, in some cases, less significant than for someone without these underlying conditions.
Age is another important factor. As we grow older, natural changes occur in circulation, hormone production, tissue elasticity, nerve sensitivity, and recovery capacity. In addition, years of neglecting physical health, poor nutrition, smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, lack of movement, chronic stress, inadequate sleep, and limited self-care can have a cumulative impact on sexual function and overall vitality.
Authentic Tantra Massage cannot reverse every underlying medical condition and should never be considered a substitute for medical diagnosis or treatment. If an underlying health condition is suspected, consultation with a GP or urologist is strongly recommended.
However, this does not mean that meaningful improvements are impossible.
Many clients experience benefits such as:
• Increased body awareness.
• Better pelvic relaxation.
• Improved blood circulation.
• Enhanced erection quality.
• Reduced performance anxiety.
• Greater confidence during intimacy.
• Increased sensitivity and body awareness.
• Improved connection between body and mind.
• Better emotional regulation.
• Greater vitality and overall well-being.
• A healthier relationship with their sexuality.
Although the results may vary depending on each individual’s circumstances, many men notice improvements in both their sexual performance and their overall quality of life.
For the best possible outcomes, Authentic Tantra Massage by May Gonzalez should be viewed as part of a broader commitment to your health and well-being, alongside healthy lifestyle habits, regular physical activity, balanced nutrition, quality sleep, stress management, and appropriate medical care whenever necessary.
Confidentiality & Before Your Session
This assessment is designed as a self-reflection tool for anyone considering booking a consultation or an Authentic Tantra Massage session with May Gonzalez.
You do not need to send this assessment in advance, and during your consultation or session you will not necessarily be asked every question listed here. Its purpose is to help you gain a better understanding of the many factors that can influence erectile function before deciding to begin this work.
By completing this assessment, you may become more aware of which factors are potentially modifiable through lifestyle changes, bodywork, emotional support, or appropriate medical care, and which factors may be related to underlying medical conditions that require professional healthcare assessment. This allows you to approach the process with realistic expectations and a clearer understanding of your own health.
Should you choose to discuss any of this information during your consultation, everything you share will remain strictly confidential and will be treated with the highest level of professionalism, respect, and discretion.
Thank you for taking the time to complete this assessment. Your honesty and self-awareness help create a safer, more personalised, and more effective therapeutic experience.
When combined, somatic sexology and Tantra offer a holistic approach to sexual and reproductive health, empowering individuals to reclaim their bodies, heal from trauma, and cultivate a deeper connection to their sexuality and creative life force. This integrative practice can be profoundly transformative, addressing challenges such as sexual dysfunction, low self-esteem, stress, lack of sexual education, or trauma related to childbirth, sexual abuse, or other life experiences. It also provides a nurturing space for relaxation and self-discovery.
Self-knowledge is a continuous journey of understanding and connecting with ourselves. As we explore deeper layers of our being, we unlock new pathways to our source of inspiration and vitality, enriching not only our personal growth but also the way we relate to the world around us.
